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6.19.2013

L-O-V-E

Linking-up with A. Liz Adventures for Spill About Your L-O-V-E today!


{1} Describe your dating life prior to finding your fiancé. 

Prior to meeting Jeremy I dated some special ones. I will be very honest here, I dated guys that were interested in my looks and not me. (or at least I think so) I would meet a guy at a bar or through a friend and just start hanging out or going on dates because I could, I was caught up in the fact that he was cute or nice and not that he actually showed interest in me. I dated a guy in college that was the worst. I don't even know if he really ever even liked me but there was something about that kid that I was infatuated with, possibly the fact that he took me out to dinner a lot or was happy to show me off to friends but whatever it was, it didn't work. I never felt appreciated or loved, and thats exactly what Jeremy gives me. Appreciation, unconditional love and is always genuinely excited to be with me. From day one he has shown nothing but genuine care and love for me. The night he met me was a bad night for me, but yet he stayed beside me, genuinely worrying and caring for me even thought I had only met him 2 hours before! (that is another story for another day!) Jeremy has always given me exactly what I never had in any past relationship and that is why we work! 

{two months after meeting}
ps. he had just gotten back from Miami (red face) & I was a brunette. whoa.

{2} Describe your fiancé in one word. How would he describe you in one word?
Jeremy- Hilarious
Me- Caring

{new years eve 2011}

{3} You had a really silly fight. Embarrassing silly. What was it about?
Food. The first night we formally were "on a date" I cooked for him. My sun-dried tomato & garlic ravioli. Well jump forward a year, I made the dish for his family one night and they loved it! His mom decided the last time we were home she would cook it for me! She did a wonderful job but she thought I used an ingredient, that I didn't, and cooked it. Jeremy loved it, wouldn't stop talking about how amazing it was, blah blah blah! Well I cooked it this past week, VERY reluctantly how his mom made it and he freakin' loved it. The more he talked about how much he loved it, the more pissed I got. That was MY recipe and she screwed it up (for the better!) So I got super mad, started yelling and telling him I would never cook again and we had quite the fight. He then realized why I was upset and apologized and said he wanted the old recipe next time I decided to make it. I realized how dumb I was being and I was just mad that his mom screwed it up for the better. dang it. 

{my 23rd birthday}


{4} In three sentences (and only three!), describe where you both hope to be in 5 years.
Five years from now I hope to have my BSN and still taking care of children. Jeremy would probably want to see himself either in the same position, some stability would be nice, or a regional manager. Kids are a possibility in five years but I'm thinking more of 6-7 years from now. 

{he will never be able to just smile! ha}

{5} Tell us something about your fiancé we wouldn't know from reading your blog.
Jeremy grew up very different from me, I grew up spoiled beyond belief and didn't realize how lucky I was, he did not. Which is not bad at all, I wish I had a little more discipline & structure like his family did! Jeremy had two-three jobs through high school and paid for his first two years of college before his freshman year! Jeremy has worked hard for every dime he's ever gotten and paid for his education, which he is very proud of! He has no school debt at all and in fact, no debt at all! He is a financial guru and gets way too excited at the thought of saving his clients money! He is amazing at what he does and personally, I think he knows more about the financial world than most banking industry people out there! #nerd

{raffaldini vineyards 2012}

{6} What's one thing you never thought you'd do in front of your fiancé, but you did?
pee.
It weirds me out, I don't wanna see him pee and I don't want him to see me pee. Farting is not big deal, I really don't care about that one. But peeing? AH! Well one day when we used to only have one bathroom I couldn't hold it in, I peed, right there in front of him. I died on the inside. 
And now- It is probably a weekly occurrence. 
Welcome to living together. You pee & fart together. It's love I tell ya!

{true love, martini in hand}


Y'all go link-up! This was so much fun to look back and think about us! 


6 comments:

  1. This is such a cute post!!! It's so great hearing about working relationships :)

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  2. Love the picture of you guys at Raffaldini!

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  3. These photos are hilarious and adorable!

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  4. What an awesome post ... I was literally, LITERALLY laughing out loud at that last little bit! And that last photo of ya'll, the martini photo - I love it! Jeremy seems so sweet and the perfect match for you!

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  5. Hey, I mentioned you in my (FIRST!) blog post today! Would love for you to check it out. And super cute post; you and Jeremy look very happy :)

    http://catscuddlingandcarrotcake.blogspot.com/2013/06/the-first-day-of-rest-of-this-blogs-life.html

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